Apparently, this is more common than I thought. Also ex-overweight, lazy, video game nerd. I put up with a ton of anxiety my whole life and up until my mid 20’s. I never even dated anyone because of it and I just didn’t feel like dragging someone into my boring life. Started experimenting.
He was always forthcoming with me about his experience with shrooms and I always appreciated that. We both know how it feels to be depressed and unmotivated. Unlike OP I didn’t know him before he tried shrooms, so maybe I would have been disturbed by the difference too.