Anecdotal but relevant: My current gf, soon-to-be fiance, and future wife was a bartender at my regular bar. She flirted with me. I liked her so we started talking. She stayed after her shift and, after talking for a few hours, I asked her if I could kiss her. She nodded yes. I’m gonna marry her. People flirt with people they find attractive; doesn’t matter if they are working or not. This goes for both heterosexual and homosexual people as well. Some guys/girls aren’t flipping the script so to speak.
As someone who’s hooked up with their waitresses, that isn’t always the case. Just let them lead at first and don’t be a creeper. Also, I worked at a strip club as a cook and strippers do date and hook up with customers. There was a rule not to but there were rules against lots of things they didn’t follow. I mean, they MIGHT be flirting with you. Service-industry workers are people too. But you should have the self-awareness to tell the difference between the bartender.
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