I am curious about what other things he’s done to make you feel as though you have to “take some of the blame.” Whatever it is, and whatever you do, I suggest getting a backbone–respectfully. Clearly, your brother thought he could mess with you and get away with it, and it sounds like he perhaps has in the past. Focus on your family, the ones who matter. Focus on your fiance’s family, and explain to them the deal and assure them that your brother won’t interfere in your lives again.
NTA so your fiancé says you let him get away with stuff in the past. Your fiancé’s argument works against him and enforces you are doing the entirely correct thing but letting him learn the consequences of his actions this time. Checkmate to that stupid argument. Kevin is entitled, he is immature, he is cruel and most importantly he is an ungrateful little shit that just pranked himself out of your support. Time for your auntie with the big mouth to put up or shut up. Tell her it’s her turn to deal with him.
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