An attractive soul is far more special to come across and I hope my wife and I continue to work at becoming as beautiful as possible as human beings, regardless of what we physically look like. It’s true that attractiveness is important to dating in many cases, but it’s not the end-all or be-all and too much vanity in and of itself can come off as “ugly”.
I really don’t like the narcissistic tendency of women who perpetrate constant selfies and attention-seeking. It is a sign of conceit and mental illness. So when I see a woman who is attractive but seemingly obsessed with her appearance, always with a Facebook page that’s nothing but pictures of herself twenty times a day in different outfits, different places, constantly self-worshipping.