Exactly! I got a text from a random number saying “Looting. Rioting. Burning cities. These are the realities of a Biden America.” What is the actual F? Biden doesn’t hold any political office at the moment. It took some people that long to find out. And really, it didn’t; it just took them that long to be willing to say publicly what they have probably acknowledged privately for a much longer time. And those people should really do some soul searching, to figure out why it was they looked the other way for so long.
To survive the situation mentally I guess. If you accept the fact that you are in no way control it can break you. If you instead make yourself believe that those who died were cowards or bad soldiers (which you are not of course) and their death or capture was indeed their own fault and not some random chance, it makes the situation so much easier to handle yourself. I had an old family member who served in Vietnam tell me after the Khan and McCain incidents that they never actually respected people who were captured or died in battle.