My mum has had loads of health complications bc her obesity and every time she takes a turn we’re all petrified its the last time we’ll see her. Obesity is no joke man, I’ve lost 7stone and really try to influence my parents/overweight friends bc this is so so heartbreaking. Everyone’s beautiful in their own way yeah, but if a loved one dies because they love food more than their family then dear god that’ll shatter my heart. You have it a bit wrong: people who aren’t overweight, but think they are (poor self-esteem and self-image) are usually told this.
If you have any sort of medical condition or have a naturally high metabolism, I’m in no way going to fat shame you. I only care that you have a healthy life and are happy with yourself. You don’t have to be paper-thin; everyone has different ideal body shapes and shouldn’t work their ass off to look like a Kardashian. However, if you’re a fat fuck who doesn’t bother to walk around the block once a week and eats five 1000-calorie meals a day, yes I will fat shame you. (Again, only because you’re a lazy fuck).