Not being willing to try new things. Went on one date with a guy who listed the 4 or 5 foods he eats then got mad that the Italian restaurant didn’t have any of them (I forget what they were but they were child foods like chicken fingers or something). He then yelled at the waiter that he only eats “real American food”. Strike 2, treating people like shit. Strike 3, perception of American exceptionalism. I chugged my wine, paid, and left. 5-minute date.
This will sound egotistical but I have always been very attractive. My family members are attractive, the men are tall handsome and the women are very pretty. I’ve always been able to get the attention of women and I’ve had some long lasting relationships that haven’t worked out. Here’s the kicker for me and I know women think it’s very unattractive, I get extreme social anxiety.