I quite often see bigger people out running or cycling when I’m on my bike and they’re always going slowly and sweating loads and red-faced and stuff and I really want to give them a big smile and a cheer because it’s easy to work out when you’re in shape already but it’s so hard when you’re not and here they are, out in the world working up a sweat and I’m really, genuinely just massively proud of them for doing that. I worry they’ll think I’m being sarcastic and that would be worse than me doing nothing at all so I don’t do it.
I love wearing pink, it suits me and I love how it goes with other colors. Guys at work make the totally original and hilarious “I didn’t know you were gay!” jokes. I just say “It’s not my fault you don’t have the balls to wear it.” I used to be self-conscious about it, but now I don’t give it a second thought. Life is too short to not have the meal you want (particularly if it’s going to perk up your mood) on account of worrying about what the people around you might think. Enjoy yourself and what you do.