Sorry, you had to deal with that. My younger brother passed away last year and I can’t imagine having to think about anything else other than the pain of it. My older bro’s crazy ex actually showed up to the funeral and used the whole event to try to get close to him again. Some people are just unbelievable. I knew a week after I got married when he slammed my head into the wall “because he saw me looking at a man” at an ice cream shop. I’m from the US and got married in England. This dude changed completely right after we got married. A couple of weeks later, I had to get out of there and come back to the US.
This happened to me as well. I woke up the morning after our wedding and we were driving. He took my head and slammed it into the truck window. It was insanity to be with someone for years and instantly shit changes. It wasn’t even like I was with the same person. It’s such a horrible feeling! Even though we dated for a while, my parents were against the marriage. After I realized that I didn’t want to be with him, I felt so ashamed to admit to my parents that I had made a mistake. I’m glad you got out of that relationship as well!