The girlfriend went probably with the idea that she could and would subvert his plans, which wasn’t cool. He even offered her several alternatives, but she insisted on coming under the conditions that OP laid out. She’s not blameless in this situation. Edit: Thank you for the award. I totally agree with you on this!! I think people need to chill with the “your S.O. should always be more important than anything” shaming toward OP. He didn’t say she wasn’t important to him. He did fuck up, and acknowledged as much, but so did she.
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He communicated his intentions and she chose to ignore them and take over his plans with her impulsive urge for healthy activity. She insisted that they do what he had planned for himself, despite the indications before, and during that she needed a lighter activity and OP’s multiple offers to accommodate her needs. He handled the situation very poorly, but she was entirely responsible for getting them into it in the first place and then getting upset that he was frustrated about the very thing he had already communicated multiple times.
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